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the last night
It is late, and it is Nora, lying on the couch at my aunt and uncles house in Princeton, the same house I set off from on Wanderlust 1, over a year and thousands of miles ago. There’s a very confused firefly flying around the room adding excitement to what has already been a very exciting evening. This whole trip has been a constant whirlwind of motion, and as I begin to think about coming to rest, landing in Brooklyn, it starts me thinking about how this trip has changed me. I can’t even think about writing about it, but if all goes according to plan there will be lots of writing about all aspects of the trip- the mundane and the gory, sacred and profane. There are so many emotions filling me right now, knowing that wanderlust 2008 is almost over, but most of all I am filled with immense joy and gratitude to the women of wanderlust- to Kathleen, Elisa, Heather, Shelby, Erin, Becky, Megumi, Vanessa, Heatha, Stacey, Paris, Mel, Megan, and Elizabeth – for being brave, and funny, and intuitive, and fierce, and creative, and uncompromising- for speaking your truths, for riding through the pain, for living deeply in each moment, and for trusting me. I was, and am, deeply honored that you shared this experience with me, and I have just two words for you – neck tattoo.
Wanderlust 4 Life.
In Philadelphia, and almost done
It’s Nora, bringing you, once again, some morning group blogging, this time from (k)notsquat, the fabulous collective that has been our home in Philly. We’re just two days of riding and less than 100 miles from New York City, and it feels strange and unexpected, to me anyway, to be so close to the end of Wanderlust. We had our last meeting in Philadelphia last night, and it was incredibly inspiring to meet the activists and educators who came out to talk with us. The meetings were an experiment – both in whether or not we’d be able to organize meetings in cities we weren’t from, in places we’d never been to, and an experiment in creating space. It always felt to me like I spent so much time working with people that I never got a chance to talk to them about why they were there. I don’t know what kinds of connections or realizations will come out of the conversations we’ve had, but I do know that I come out of every conversation feeling like there is a movement, a network of people working together to create a world in which women have the resources they need to make healthy decisions about their bodies and their lives.
Mel here, *drafting* off Nora’s thoughts (see bike nerds, I AM learning some lingo). Someone at last night’s meeting said they were feeling depressed by the state of affairs in Philly and they wanted me to tell them an inspirational story from somewhere with a “stronger” movement than Philly. I responded that the inspirational thing for me was not a particular place per se but the fact that people came out in each place we passed thro and opened themselves to meaningful exchanges. In every single meeting, people came to talk about their struggles to promote healthier bodies and lives for women, and they came open and willing to connect with each other as well as with perfect strangers from out-of-town (who on top of it all probly didn’t smell very good). In almost every place, people expressed a sense of isolation. I tried to explain to the group I was talking with last night the kind of feeling it gives me when I move thro community after community expressing the same sense of isolation and yet there are all these people at all these meetings, and they’re doing and thinking and going against the grain of their community’s espoused values. That’s the heart of it, for me anyways, and I look forward to spending more time thinking about Wanderlust and all the ways that it has inspired me.
Kathleen here!–I’m almost home to New York….its so close its as if I can taste it! The ride into Philly was really long….a 70 mile plus day of up and down hills IN THE RAIN and without food for the first 6 hours of it. I was soooo tired at the end of the day. I was a bit skeptical when I got to this place we are staying but then I warmed up to it once I found out more about what this house is about….Yesterday I spent part of the day checking emails and relaxing!!! I later biked thru Philly and visited a medical museum that was pretty cool….but overpriced. I then went shopping for a new outfit (all my clothes are so nasty…plus I needed an outfit for our New York welcome back party). Our meeting that night was jam packed with interested people from the Philly area who are interested in what we are doing. One of my mom’s friends, Ruth, came and it really meant a lot to me. Later we went to a bar and the chef gave the pizza to us to for free! That was really nice
We were all giddy and I got up and started dancing and as Erin was spinning me I fell FLAT on my face and almost hit a table. Everyone at the bar stopped. Good thing I wasn’t hurt too bad. Only my pride was bruised a little, lol…. My knee hurts, I have like rug burn now! We met some cool girls from Drexel last night at the bar, and they danced with us and got caught up in all of the craziness of us wanderlusties. Wow…..I’m really sad…
More to come, from the rest of the crew, but now we’re off to Princeton!
hello from our last and final campground
This is Nora, bringing you morning blogging from our last morning in the great outdoors. We are all sad, says lizbrite. No we’re not! Says Shelby. We’re at Susquehanna State Park, hovering on the edge of Delaware on our way to Philadelphia and our last meeting.
Bugs seem to be our theme today. Mel is tired of bugs crawling her feet, and our breakfast has already been inturrupted several times by various species of bug. During the thunderstrom last night in our tents, the bugs decided to take shelter in our teents with us.
Speaking of thunderstorms, one of the reasons we haven’t written in a few days is that riding into Baltimore was a near death experience. We were late getting into the city because of spills and flats, and as we were riding into Baltimore city limits the threatening clouds opened up and suddenly we were riding through a deluge. It was the first time that any of us had ever biked upstream.
As we were riding through the city, sopping wet, a person on the sidewalk yelled out, hey, are you wanderlust? Once again, our fame preceded us.
We’ve been highly negligent in posting about wanderlust, and we have reflections about our meetings in chapel hill, washington dc, and baltimore, as well as stories from some crazy adventurous days of riding. Hopefully when we get to Philly we ‘ll have some storytelling time.
We had a shorter day of riding than planned yesterday because we had trouble tearing ourselves away from Sugar, Baltimore’s favorite feminist sex store. It’s the only place in town that has adult sex education classes and also provides information and resources about sexuality in a safe and non judgmental environment. If you’re in Baltimore or DC, you should definitely check it out – sugartheshop.com
Things we lost on the road
It’s Nora again, bringing you Monday morning blogging.
After a thunderstorm last night that turned out to be not nearly as severe as the weather advisories said it was going to be, we’re eating breakfast at Falls Lake State Park under a clear blue post-storm sky, and I’m eating salmon cream cheese, which is delicious. In honor of the fact that my tent (which has been with me for several years and many bike trips) almost got lost in Chapel Hill, this morning we bring you a blog about things we’ve lost on the road.
Before we begin, though, I would like to state for the record that I don’t think you get electrocuted if lightning hits the lake when you’re swimming. Any meteorologists out there want to chime in?
Because I’m writing, I begin with me. So far, I’ve lost one tent (recovered), shampoo and conditioner, 1 yellow sarong, and 1 diva cup (left in the hotel in Birmingham)
Mel hasn’t lost anything yet. Except her modesty. She is very lucky.
Becky so far has lost:
1 biking glove (1 day old)
3 towels
3 bike socks
1 rearview mirror
We hang our laundry on the roof of the van to dry every day, and apparently Becky’s towels were not such big fans of that. I did recover one pair of her socks on an overpass in Alabama – we’d ridden by, and my thoughts, as I pedaled, went like this: “Wow, that’s a nice pair of bike socks. I wonder what it’s doing on the side of the road.”
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“those probably fell off the van.”
Heather doesn’t think she’s lost anything but sleep, so far, and Stacey claims to have lost one argyle sock, which we think is highly suspicious given that there is no good reason to even have argyle socks on Wanderlust.
There are also lots of things that get lost every day and refound – the van keys, the can opener, the bike tools box, the lighter for the stove. We thought we lost the bug dope box one day, but it turned out it was just in the van.
Elisa has lost the use of her camelbak because of – and there’s no other way to say this – cat pee. It may actually not have been a cat, but something definitely, emphatically, undoubtedly peed on her camelbak. She washed it in vinegar in Charleston, and now it smells like vinegar, and also still like pee.
Lizbrite claims not to have lost anything, and we’re thinking about looking in her bag for all the stuff we’re lost, because she’s got a suspicious little smile on her face.
Kathleen may or may not have lost anything, (we’re not sure because she’s still sleeping) but she did find her dog, Diamond, at the goldfish farm in Bunnlevel.
Vanessa and Elisa found a parrot at the Recyclery in Carrboro, but I’m relatively convinced that it’s actually my parrot which someone stole off my bike in New York City a few months ago. It was probably a traveling child caravan that then ditched the stolen goods in the woods of North Carolina.
More posts, more often
It’s Nora, so excited to discover that it is, indeed, possible to post to wanderlust from my blackberry. Say what you will about technology, it will be far more exciting around wanderlustland now that we are not so reliant on lizbrite’s computer.
We find ourselves, today, in jones lake state park, in north carolina. It was touch and go there, for a while, whether or not we were going to stay at the vineyard, especially after Sheila’s son came in and told us about the ropes course that he helped build that had its grand opening today in Myrtle Beach.
North Carolina is not nearly as hilly as we’d predicted, although the wind has been intense. We’re also experiencing a “cold front” which means that the high today was only 92 instead of in the hundreds.
We’re spending the next two days on the road, and then we’ll roll into Chapel Hill for the Hog Festival and a potluck dinner with local activists.
Get ready, tarheels…